Holiday Hang Over - Looking Ahead

Yes friends: we've survived another Holiday Season. In some ways I feel like I am still getting my bearings. It's been a fun and exhausting tumble into 2009.

MERRY CHRISTMAS

Christmas with the Family 2008

This is the second year in a row that I have been home for Christmas. Because I've missed quite a few with the family I do enjoy going to church on the 24th, staying at the House in Pointe Claire and eating plenty of my mom's food. Christmas Day we open our gifts, talk to my older sister overseas and usually end the festivities watching a movie. This year our little cousin chose Bedtime Stories. I was crashing so hard from all the food that it truly was a Bedtime Story: I fell asleep through the entire thing.
"Lululemon Hoodie with a Pony Tail Hole!" awesome x-mas gifts 2008
typical Vicente Christmas Tradition: Food with Napping (and TV)

PARTY FOR A PURPOSE: BE BRILLIANT
Me with Julie

On the 26th of December Party for a Purpose held their first party at Suco Lounge in the heart of Downtown Montreal. I am really proud of what our Organization was able to accomplish, raising one thousand dollars for The Canadian Association of Education and Outreach (www.caeoquebec.org). I also had the honour of spinning with local heroes Christian Pronovost and Rilly Guilty.
DJs extraordinaire: Rilly Guilty and Toddy Flores
lovely ladies of Be Brilliant


More DJing....
Happy New Year! Typhoon 2008

There wasn't much of a cool down after Be Brilliant. New Year's was the following week where I spun at Typhoon, my regular Thursday and Saturday residency. Then I had one more big party, the M: Brgr staff party which was a hot mess and the most fun.

All in all I keep learning more and more about DJing through these experiences. There are definitely some moments where I am on the cusp of exhaustion. But I ask myself, "How am I going to handle myself when I am a bigger DJ and I have to travel and DJ back to back gigs around the world? What will I do then?" After all this time I still really love it. And I'd rather be tired and spinning music to people than doing any other job for sure.
Frances and Marc Andre

the boys across from us at Picasso's at 4am

2009

Slowly I am getting back to a more familiar routine. Montreal has been pretty cold which curtails my desire to go out at all. But I try to get out every once in a while just to stay sane. I am working at M: Brgr three days a week still but I have my DJ gigs to keep my in action with my passion and also my Contemporary Dance classes on Sunday which I find so inspiring. Those are my three main gigs.

I want Party for a Purpose to have another event late in the Spring just before the School Term finishes. It hasn't been discussed yet but I am hoping our next party could benefit an organization my cousin Fred turned me on to called Kiva (www.kiva.org) that does Money Lending in developing nations. Really inspiring stuff.

Lisa and Janelle are sisters who collaborate in Art Projects together under the name Las Hermanas Iglesias (www.lashermanasiglesias.com). They asked me to help create some new music for them for their exhibit in the Queens Museum in New York which I was really honoured to take part of along with my friend Kris.

Recently, one of the women at the Dance Studio approached me to see if I would be interested in showcasing some choreography for a Dance Event for New Choreographers which I recently agreed to do.

I just want to be clear that I am not really saying these things to just toot my own horn. But one of the things I got out of doing the Self Expression and Leadership Program in Landmark is a real genuine sense of accomplishment. Often times I find that I am truly hard on myself when things going badly in my life. I am so self abusive and unsupportive. It's so easy to say to myself, "Well Mark, you fucked up again. This didn't work out, you're in debt, you're a bad person." But it's interested when good things come along and what we say is, "It was luck. I was in the right place at the right time. It was chance."

This year is about really being present to all the happiness and joy and adventure I bring into my life. Through my studies I was really able to understand that I create my life. No one else does. My sister has another way of putting it. She likes to look at life as an equation that equals out to a certain result. But if you want to change the result the one thing you can change in the equation is the variable, the "x". Change the variable, change that result. I want to really get present to the fact that I am the variable in my life. And that all the good in life is not only just auspicious circumstances and dumb-luck. It's designed by you and me. Are you ready to be an Architect?
"The most visible creators I know are those artists whose medium is life itself. The ones who express the inexpressible - without brush, hammer, clay or guitar. They neither paint nor sculpt - their medium is being. Whatever their presence touches has increased life. They see and don’t have to draw. They are the artists of being alive." -Jay Scott

Grey Cup 2008: Montreal, Highlights

Mr. Grey Cup

Olympic Stadium

This was my second year DJing for the Grey Cup. Last year was pretty amazing because it was in Toronto, where I grew up and lived for many years, and I got to DJ at CiRCA, which was intimidating but a really incredible experience.
inside the dome (I wanted to go home with that DJ equipment!)

2008 was also really cool because this year Montreal was not only hosting the Grey Cup, but the Montreal Alouettes were in the final against the Calgary Stampeders. The Alouettes really turned it out for the fans and created a Grey Cup Village for the days prior to the big game and the Olympic Stadium. In the middle of the Village was a white dome which was where I got to spin. They had it set up sort of looking like a club/lounge which was pretty swank for the Grey Cup. I actually had a few people ask me if it was a VIP Lounge.
The Dome at the Grey Cup Village

Calgary fans (Stampeders went on to win the Grey Cup)

All in all, it was a pretty long week. They extended my hours to accommodate the fans and I also was still spinning at Typhoon. There were the usual rough patches during the gig that I have grown to expect. Liz and Julie in the DomeOne of the big lessons I continue to learn is to not take things too seriously, try to keep things in perspective and to have a sense of humour. It's a difficult thing sometimes to bite my tongue when everybody seems to think that they can DJ. While some people are only at the lounge for an hour or so I have to take into account the big picture and know that I have to create a musical atmosphere that will last the duration of eleven hours. Hamilton Tiger Cats fans

I was never really bullied as a child, at least not too badly, but you do get bullied when you are behind the decks! Drunk people always have opinions. They flip through your CD binder looking for songs they want to hear. Or when they request something they get mad when they do not hear there song right away. Ultimately there is no way to please everybody. It's like that in life as it is behind the DJ table.Gladys, Alouette Cheerleader and Co-Host of the Cheerleader Party, HUDDLE

There were some great moments too. One night a girl requested to hear some House, which I was dying to play because the space looked like a club and the system was decent. I played about an hour of House where her and her two friends proceeded to dance all around the lounge trying to get other people to join them. There was a guy dressed up as the Grey Cup and his friend was dressed as Pee Wee Herman. Apparently the Grey Cup is also Halloween. Tequila!They were cool guys and the dude dressed as the Cup asked me to play Tequila so his friend could dance an impromptu solo to many flashing camera lights and claps. A drunk guy got up on one of the tables to perform a little strip dance for the crowd. I was about to play a song when I saw what was happening so I seized the moment and decided to play "What is Love". Someone who was close to me turned and said, "nice job!"

On my last night I was pretty much delirious from DJing so much. I wasn't sure how I wanted to end the evening when a lady came up to the table and said, "I have these kids here who have been dancing outside. Do you think they could perform a little hip-hop number? I have a CD of their music." I said, hells yeah! Apparently they really wanted to play at a Club but they were all under age. So everyone who happened to be there that night got to see a dance show. It was awesome.
Getting ready: backstage at HUDDLE

Still, one of my favourite moments is when I finally finished my contract and was leaving the Grey Cup Village. One of the maintenance guys who mopped the floor came up to me and asked me about a track he liked and where he could find it. It's a real nice feeling knowing that people are listening and enjoying what you are playing.


the Alouettes dancing at HUDDLE

When friends come to visit...

...trouble.


I heart beer. Can you tell?


Coming back to Canada and especially Montreal has been such a blessing. To reconnect with some friends I haven't seen since I left for New York and to make new friends have been so special to me.



I like to think of myself as a pretty social person. But there is nothing like those old friends who know you through and through and have been there thick and thin. I cannot think of two other people who represent that for me than Mat and Brendan. We have seen a lot together and have grown so much as individuals. I am so proud to have them in my life. As Artists in life it's often hard to find the time to spend together. So the moment was not lost on me when we all happened to be in Montreal at the same time. Props to Mat for driving from Ontario!

Duncan came from Liverpool to be with Brendan while he was rehearsing for a Dance Show. I call this their American Apparel Ad

Dean and Me

A week later Dean Voon was in town for a quick visit. Dean and I met randomly at a cafe on Queen West while I was performing in The Lion King and what a fortunate meeting that was because he's such a great guy. We hadn't seen each other in many years so to have the chance to sit and have sushi with him was a great moment. Just to be with him and to share our life experiences was awesome. Afterward we met up with Brendan and his dance friends as well as some of my friends from work for some crazy Karoake. What a fun night.

Brendan showcasing the jeans he bought at Value Village. Irony is the new black for Spring '09. Icing on the cake? There were pleats in the jeans.

what do you sing when doing Karoake? Alanis Morissette of course!

It's unfortunate that these crazy nights of play seem few and far between. But it's also what makes me so grateful when the social stars do align, even for only a moment.

To My American Peeps: Happy Thanksgiving!

As I stare out my window all I see is grey and the little flakes of snow swirling in the air. These are just two pictures that prove that Montreal does indeed have an Autumn. It doesn't last very long but it happens.

Toronto

Winter is, rather quickly, coming to Montreal. But I wanted to add some of these pictures from my trip to Toronto late in the summer. My friend Krista Leis was getting married in Stratford so I spent a day and a half there and also in Toronto seeing some friends.

I don't go to Toronto very much which is strange I guess because I grew up there. It took a minute to really take in where I was. It was a little sad to sense that I didn't feel a strong connection to the City anymore. But what I loved the most was spending time with friends I hadn't seen in a very long time. That made the trip really special.

Hanging out with Rhonda and Davis
I was introduced to Rhonda and Davis through my friend Mat. When I lived in a Co-Op in Cabbagetown they were our neighbours. They now live in their own House on Queen East. It;s a pretty cool up and coming part of town with some wonderful restaurants and bakeries. It's always great to see these two because they tell the best stories. I am always laughing and learning when I hang out with these two.




Krista and Randy met in Stratford while performing in Gigi. So it was only fitting that they be married in Stratford. Really, you can't go wrong having a Wedding there. So beautiful.

This is Devon posing with the wonderful cupcakes he made for the reception



I didn't have a lot of time off over the summer because I was really committed to saving money, buying a new laptop and getting new DJ equipment. So this trip to Toronto, though short, was a real treat. I really wanted to see Joshua since he had also been a way from Canada for a while living in London, England. Like most people, Joshua was working, but I was able to hang out with him while he was on break. He's such a special guy and I really do hope I get to see more of him now that we are both in the same country.

Unfortunately I don't have any pictures of Chad who was kind enough to let me stay at his place while I was in the t-dot. That was also quite special for me because it had been a while since we really were able to connect. He's such a lovely man.

One of the highlights for sure was hanging out with this lady. Karla Jang and I did two shows together and our friendship has continued to stay strong. She and I have moved on from the 'Business' in our own ways so it's always great to get together with her, not only to reminisce and catch up on gossip on such but to also talk about where we are in our lives and what's new. This is a shot I took while we were shopping for beef to put on the grill for dinner.


There were a few more people I would have loved to see but my trip was so short it wouldn't have been possible. It really wasn't so much the City itself as it was the close friends I have there that made the trip really awesome. I hope I can create some time to go back soon.

Word up

Integrity:

1. adherence to moral and ethical principles; soundness of moral character; honesty.
2. the state of being whole, entire, or undiminished: to preserve the integrity of the empire.
3. a sound, unimpaired, or perfect condition: the integrity of a ship's hull.

It's talked about a lot in Landmark. It's at the foundation of it's principles of transforming your life. In a nutshell it's about keeping your word.

Some people are probably thinking, "Keeping my word? That's not too hard." But imagine all the times we break our word in a single day. I say I will call a friend on Tuesday and then I don't. I tell someone else that I will attend their party and then I flake. When you make a commitment to keep your word in everything you do it makes you pause. I ask myself, "Can I really go to the function or am I just trying to be polite? If I say yes to a coffee date with so-and-so will I be truly committed to going?"

I only bring this up because I want to make a commitment to this Blog. I want to be a man of my word. And sure I've got some gentle nudging from some friends to keep writing but this is a commitment I want to keep for myself. I'm sure there's some aspect of these public journals that seem self-indulgent. But bottom line I just like writing. And it's an important aspect of my life that I want to continue developing so long as I am breathing.

So I am making a commitment to Blog twice a month. They may be long blogs, short ones, boring, full of pictures, I don't know! Maybe no one will read them and maybe lots of people will. But for those of you who do it's my wish that it gives you a moment of reflection and inspiration. I think that's why I named my Blog that. Because more and more I am present to the little moments of creativity and those tiny sparks of joy.

Last night my sister and I went to see a rehearsal for a Dance show. Mistaya has been working with La La La Human Steps for many years now and they are just about to go on tour again. They were doing their final rehearsals at Concordia University which is right down the street from where we live so it was a perfect opportunity for us. And what I was really present to at that moment of watching them dance was how amazing they all were and how blessed I was to be sitting there. These talented performers have traveled the world with this piece. People from Paris, Vietnam, Tokyo, New York, Barcelona have all paid top dollar to see these people in action. And here I was with my sister watching for free.

We're always searching for the big trip, that amazing vacation, that wonderful partner to breathe life into our sometimes-dull lives. But that spark is everywhere. We just have to create it. And that's what this blog does for me. Because it gives me the opportunity to reflect and encapsulate some of the magic that's been going on around me and inside me. And this is what it takes to live a magical life. because when I share with you and you read my words and feel inspired, then I feel inspired.

And hey, if you're ever feeling run down or swamped or that you just can't take t anymore, find a friend. It could be anybody. Someone you're not even that close to even. And share a laugh with them. Feels good, right?

Summer...where did it go?

Happened pretty quick didn't it...I won't lie, I'm a little bummed out that the weather has gotten cooler and the sun is setting quicker. People are getting sick easier. Still, it's fun to see all the new students, bright-eyed and bushy tailed walking through the McGill ghetto, getting to know the city for the first time. It's time for change.

This is the portion of my blog I am calling "Random Pics of Summer". So many amazing things happened and I just didn't have time to talk about them all. Here are a few of them:

This is my friend Mat (www.matjash.com) I have known him since I was nine years old. Mat continues to have a wonderful, adventurous dance career. He's an amazing Choreographer and happened to be in Montreal performing with Marie Chouinard. We don't see much of each other these days but when we do it's as though little time has passed which says to me that our bond is strong.

This picture was taken at the "W" Hotel. I met Kafi when I was doing the Lion King. She is a talented dancer with a beautiful spirit. I wouldn't say we were ever really close when we worked together. And while I lived in New York she was performing on Broadway in Bombay Dreams. But New York has a way of keeping everyone busy and I never really saw her while I was there. She was on tour with Cirque du Soleil's Delirium and was only in Montreal for a short while to learn Dralion. I remember that when we met up for dinner, I had party all night (and all morning) so I was pretty shot. But it was so great to speak with her and share everything we had gone through over the last five years. We only had the opportunity to hang out twice while she was here but it was really special for me to hang out with her. In this picture she's with her friend Anika.

"Go Alouettes!" Marie-Eve, Julie and my sis Liz watching and away game. I am so excited to spin for the Gey Cuy this year!

Steve Lawler @ Tribe Hyperclub.What can I say? I was so excited to see him spin in Montreal. I was disappointed that I couldn't make it to Toronto to see him spin at Guvernment but his set at Tribe was on point and everyone was feeling the vibe. Good night.

This man is my heart. Brendan and I don't speak that much anymore which is why it meant so much to me that he texted me while he was in Montreal for an audition. We got to hang out a little bit and catch up which was beyond special to me. We just hung out, walked around, chatted and ate. I love this guy.

Hanging out with Mistaya in Old Port Prior to this photo being taken I made Mistaya try on a pair of Crocs that we both agreed were the ugliest things on the planet. The minute she tried them on her entire expression changed. "Mark, you don't understand. They are SO ugly. But I feel like I'm walking on clouds." We have a date to go to the Crocs store to buy a pair. Don't tell anyone.

On a rainy day in August, this many people and then some congregated to Parc Jean Drapeau to watch one of the best bands on the earth, Radiohead. I admit, I don't know their new album very well. And even though it was raining and everyone's shoes were covered in mud, nothing beats hearing Thom Yorke sing Fake Plastic Trees while Fireworks were going off in the distance for the final night of the Festival of Lights. Coincidence? I think not. An amazing moment of the Summer.
My sister, Frances who came with me to the concert





Of course I wish there were many more days to just hang out with friends and explore the city but even just looking at the pictures makes me think that I had a pretty good summer overall. I did have a chance to go to Toronto for a few days (which I will blog about soon, I hope!) and me and my sister just moved to a new apartment. All in all I am still enjoying my life here in Montreal. Of course it has its ups and downs but more often than not I feel extremely blessed. I can't wait to see what the next few months brings...

(thank you all for being patient with my blog. I wish I had the time to write more and I promise to do so in the future)